I am an intelligent, calm, romantic, generous, and compassionate man. I love the outdoors and sports. I used to live very close to the sea. Now in live in center of USA among the cornfields and farmers. I love to learn about new topics and activities.

I have been on this site far longer than I originally thought. So I wanted to share with you a little bit of my experience so you’ll have an understanding of what it is I’m looking for. And also what I am not looking for.

I’m looking for someone who is ready to take the step after maybe 15 or 20 letters to have a real conversation in real time. And, to my amazement and disappointment, that seems to be extremely rare like finding a unicorn here on this site. It’s a paradox in fact. People on the site seem to want to find someone special to share their life with. So why is it so difficult after 15, 20 maybe 40 or 50 letters for anyone to agree to have a FaceTime conversation? Or a Google meet conversation. Nowhere in the real world do people insist on bumping into each other at the supermarket 40 or 50 times before going on a date. So why is that acceptable here? If you are attached to endless correspondence, please pass me by. If you want the real thing, just know that after 16 letters I will want your personal email and if we cannot move to real conversations soon after, I will move on.

I am not here to have an endless correspondence with somebody. What I am looking for is somebody who is willing to have a real time conversation, go on real dates and have a real life together. And it has been a profound disappointment that nobody that I have communicated with here is willing to go to next step and have a real conversation.

How to break the pattern??

P.S. I find that a woman's natural beauty is the most attractive. I am not into breast augmentation. And I am VERY turned OFF by tattoos. If your body is covered in tattoos, I will not be interested at all, Not sorry!

I would love to meet a kind, caring, intelligent and supportive woman who will be a great partner, wife, and mother to share in this life with me.