I believe that if you don't have a healthy friendship first, any relationship is doomed to fail. The Core Motivation that drives me through life is Intimacy, not just sexual intimacy. I require connection; the sharing of rich, deep emotions that bring people together. I will often sacrifice a great deal of time, effort, and or personal convenience to develop and maintain meaningful relationships throughout my life, and that maybe the reason why, although I know lots of people, I don’t have many friends. I exercise to keep myself physically and mentally fit. I like the idea of discovering new things. I Love to read but my true passion its writing. I get energized by things that stretch my thinking. I am a man that loves life and I live it to the fullest. I believe we all have strengths and talents that are uniquely our own, they are a waste if kept to ourselves, so share them! I put my best into each task and leave each situation better than I found it. I always seek opportunities to genuinely connect with others, and need to be understood and appreciated, especially by my partner. Everything I do have to be quality-based or I won't do it at all. I am incredibly loyal to friends, employers, and above all to my significant other. Whatever or whomever I commit to is my sole (and soul) focus. I love to serve and will give freely of myself in order to nurture the lives of others. I seek to find that which is beautiful in all people...and all things. I have a heart full of love, warmth, and compassion to share. I am unbelievably thoughtful, I emanate quality and purpose in all that I do, and I give my heart wholly and willingly. People that know me will say that I am a rock, stable and dependable, with a capacity for emotional depth that is remarkable.

What I would find attractive is an assertive, strong, sensible woman. Happiness only happens through having a balanced life spiritually, physically, and mentally. My partner is someone who would be there for me in the good and the bad times. Someone who has a big heart a heart that is big enough that when I screw up, she can forgive me. Someone that is grown up and knows that no one is perfect and we all make mistakes and we all need forgiveness. Someone that can see the soul of the man she falls in love with and knows she can trust him. She is an open minded woman who is always faithful, thorough and honest. She is someone who can take a joke, laugh and give it back laughing. She is a woman capable of laughing, and even laugh at herself without being ashamed. Someone who does not play games, she is someone who tells it as she sees it. She is someone who hates to argue, and can sit down and calmly talk about the problem with her mate and can come to a compromise with him. Someone who feels that doesn't always have to be right. Someone who's opinion is very important to me because I know I can trust that opinion...someone who is not petty. My code of ethics is remarkably strong and I expect others not only my partner and those closest to me, but everyone to live honest, committed lives as well. I enjoy sharing meaningful moments in conversation with my partner as well as remembering the special life events that shape our lives.🙄