The biggest mistake men make on dating apps is treating their photo section like a passport application: five boring headshots taken in the same lighting, usually in a car. To get noticed by the right woman, you need to use your photos to tell a compelling story.

Your dating profile is a portfolio of your life, not just your face. Think of it this way: a woman isn't just deciding if she likes your looks; she's quickly assessing if your lifestyle aligns with what she's looking for in a partner.

Start with one or two excellent, high-quality portraits where you are genuinely smiling and well-lit—you need to show what you look like clearly. But for the rest of your gallery, prioritize action shots that visually demonstrate your hobbies and lifestyle.

Are you a hiker? Include a photo on a mountain peak.

Do you love to cook? Show a picture of you grilling or standing proudly next to a complex dish.

Are you active with your pet? A photo with your dog or cat is universally appealing and shows warmth.

These images serve a dual purpose: they showcase that you are active, interesting, and emotionally available, and they instantly give a potential match or girl an easy, natural opening line for a conversation. A woman swiping will immediately feel a connection if she sees a shared interest.

Stop asking yourself, "Does this photo look good?" and start asking, "Does this photo spark a specific question or show a valuable part of my life?"

Make it easy for a girl to imagine spending time with you.